LESSONS AND BLESSINGS: My Take on BlovesLife & EatWithQue
I know I may not have the biggest platform, but I do have a voice that deserves to be heard. Before I get into the tea I must say, I am a truth seeker and I display all of my lessons, the good, the bad, and the ugly, on both my Blog and my YouTube channel for the world to see. I hold back no punches for myself, and it would be a disservice if I didn't do the same for others. I am proud to say, I am my sister's keeper. Having said that, let's poor this cup...
First, I want to give a resounding kudos to Nikocado Avocado for being the only Mukbanger I have seen to publicly stand strong in his opinion of what happened between "Eat with Ego", as Nik likes to call her, and Mrs. Bethany Gaskins, "Bloveslife". We live in a world where a lot of people believe it's best to sweep issues under the rug, or keep their heads down until it blows over. What people don't understand is, by doing this, we never heal the wound properly, which means we never learn the lesson. This causes it to manifest again and again, generation after generation, until the lesson is learned and the cycle is broken. Nik had the balls to tear this situation apart piece by piece to say EXACTLY what he thought and what many others were thinking. So, congratulations Nik! I love your honesty and I live for your truth!
Second, most of us know we go through the mountains and valley's of life to teach us lessons that we need to learn in order to be one with the Creator. What most people don't understand is, we have control over how long the storm lasts. The quicker your actions line up with the wisdom from the storm, the sooner you will reach the blessings the rain has to offer.
Having said that, let's start with Eat With Que's lessons. Her perspective is her reality, and as an individual, her reality needs to be respected. HOWEVER, there is a certain thing called class, morals, honesty, and tact, all of which I feel are sadly missing. We all saw the receipts of her skeeting in Mrs. Blove's inbox. Showering her with love and affection, and making herself readily available for a good box licking at the drop of a dime. I know that may be a bit graphic for some, but I call it as I see it. She has deliberately placed herself in this box of deceit all because she chooses not to check her ego, swallow her pride, and seek forgiveness. Gurl! This ain't poker! You better "fold" before you get "folded"... Now that's true tea! Don't mess with it. God is trying to teach you a lesson, which you are REFUSING to learn! He doesn't want you to go down in flames, but he won't hesitate to bring you to your knees if need be. So, do yourself a favor Sis. Take a step back and evaluate these couple of bullet points I am about to mention. Just know that I say it all with love and I am positive the majority of your supporters will resonate with my thoughts as well.
1. Stop bringing God's name into such a messy situation. God is love and none of your actions speak love. God didn't tell you to call her son a Queen. God didn't tell you to mislead Blove into a false relationship with love. God didn't tell you to air out your dirty laundry publicly. God didn't tell you not to have any remorse when you made her cry. There is absolutely no excuse, rhyme, or reason for not handling these issues in private with a person you built a personal relationship with. Love is a strong word that is abused more than the name Jesus and God. What your actions say to me is, you never truly loved her at all. She was simply "that chick" you keep close enough to call her when you are ready to get your clit wet. You hit it, quit it, then had the nerve to say the sex wasn't that good in the first place. The good thing is, it's not too late to redeem yourself. You already called on God once to strike down your lies, and It looks like you are getting what you asked for. You brought Him into this, and he is the only one that can get you out of this. What will you do to bring honor to his name?
2. Address the things that look shady AF. Those text messages and videos say a lot, and there really is no way you can spin it. All you can do at this point is admit to being deceitful in an effort to get what you wanted and needed. You aren't the first person who ever used somebody and you won't be the last. All anybody wants right now is accountability and honesty. So, boss up! Learn your lesson, take the L, and move forward. You will get back on top eventually... Trust!
3. Call Blove and speak your peace. As uncomfortable as it may be, it's time for you to put your big girl panties on. There is no way you can come for somebodies livelihood and think you can get away with sweeping it under the rug.
4. TAKE THE EXPOSING VIDEOS DOWN! Nuff Said...
5. Apologize to Blove, Darius, and her Husband publicly. You dragged them through the mud publicly, and it is your job to dust them off.
6. YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM, STOP TRYING TO PLAY ONE! Nobody is discrediting or invalidating your feelings. In this situation, your feelings have nothing to do with explaining your actions. You are having a harsh lesson in controlling the Ego, checking your pride, and knowing when to have a sense of humility. Move your pride to the side so you can see the truth in your actions. Remove your Ego so you can see everybody's perspectives, and humble yourself long enough to admit you did some things wrong.
7. Stop asking people to move on. We will move on from you before we move on from this, and I think your declining numbers are proving just that. What you don't realize is, there can be a silver lining to this shit storm you have created. As a content provider, I know you are aware of the controversy between YouTubers and nobody understanding the essence of a sincere apology. Well... Batter Up! It's your turn Biss! You have the opportunity to raise the bar. Are you going to step up to the plate and hit a home run? I guess only time will tell.
As for Mrs. Blove's lessons, there are a few that are worth mentioning. She is now stepping into the dog eat dog world of Fame. Her name has been in rooms that her feet have yet to step in. Inside this world, the Devil is VERY real, and people put a price on their Souls every day. Before she steps firm in this Arena, the Lord needed to toughen her soul. She is a real-life Earth Angel that has a very specific Divine mission. So, it is important for her to stay focused and be unmoved by the Dark energy that will surround her.
Furthermore, Blove needs to strengthen her discernment and read the energy. Even Lucifer was a fallen Angel. So, he knows the Word of God inside and out, which he will cleverly use to gain your trust, then trick you out before you even know it. For this reason, it is imperative to stay grounded, question everything, and read the energy.
Lastly, when you are blessed with such greatness, the worse possible thing you can ever do is get comfortable. I strongly believe everybody is given a platform to benefit the growth of the collective. If you are given a voice that resonates with the people it is your duty to continue to ask yourself, "What can I do to help people be the best version of themselves so they can pay it forward?" I feel, in this regard, Blove has stalled. Also, in my humble opinion, as a viewer, my heart became less connected the more I began feeling like it's business as usual. She did the unimaginable and outstretched her hand to many underdogs and lotus flowers on YouTube. She took strides to demolish this crab in a barrel mentality, and that is admirable and undeniable. However, I know her Angels are going to lift her up much higher than she currently is. In order to reach this higher elevation, she needed to take a moment to re-calibrate the rhythm of her heart to match the beat of the drum of the people. We all are on this ride with her, so it is dire that we continue to resonate with her every step of the way. This speed bump has interrupted the energy of monotony, which effortlessly brought her, and everybody else, back to love. Now we are all vibrating on one accord. One heart, one beat, one drum. It's all love. Mrs. Bethany Gaskin handled this situation like the Queen she is, and I am very proud of her! This is your winning season, so keep rising Queen! We are here for it, and we love you! Check out Mrs. Bethany Gaskin's "BlovesLife" cameo in The New York Times.
In closing, I want to remind everybody that we are all individuals who have signed up for our own experience on this Earth. My looking glass will look nothing like yours because I had my own set of situations that have shaped my viewpoint on life. No matter what our perspectives are, it is important to step back, strip away the emotions, then question, "Was this done in love?" "Was this said in love?" If the answer is no, then you know the Devil has his claws in the mix.
Always follow the light!
-YUME
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Second, most of us know we go through the mountains and valley's of life to teach us lessons that we need to learn in order to be one with the Creator. What most people don't understand is, we have control over how long the storm lasts. The quicker your actions line up with the wisdom from the storm, the sooner you will reach the blessings the rain has to offer.
Having said that, let's start with Eat With Que's lessons. Her perspective is her reality, and as an individual, her reality needs to be respected. HOWEVER, there is a certain thing called class, morals, honesty, and tact, all of which I feel are sadly missing. We all saw the receipts of her skeeting in Mrs. Blove's inbox. Showering her with love and affection, and making herself readily available for a good box licking at the drop of a dime. I know that may be a bit graphic for some, but I call it as I see it. She has deliberately placed herself in this box of deceit all because she chooses not to check her ego, swallow her pride, and seek forgiveness. Gurl! This ain't poker! You better "fold" before you get "folded"... Now that's true tea! Don't mess with it. God is trying to teach you a lesson, which you are REFUSING to learn! He doesn't want you to go down in flames, but he won't hesitate to bring you to your knees if need be. So, do yourself a favor Sis. Take a step back and evaluate these couple of bullet points I am about to mention. Just know that I say it all with love and I am positive the majority of your supporters will resonate with my thoughts as well.
1. Stop bringing God's name into such a messy situation. God is love and none of your actions speak love. God didn't tell you to call her son a Queen. God didn't tell you to mislead Blove into a false relationship with love. God didn't tell you to air out your dirty laundry publicly. God didn't tell you not to have any remorse when you made her cry. There is absolutely no excuse, rhyme, or reason for not handling these issues in private with a person you built a personal relationship with. Love is a strong word that is abused more than the name Jesus and God. What your actions say to me is, you never truly loved her at all. She was simply "that chick" you keep close enough to call her when you are ready to get your clit wet. You hit it, quit it, then had the nerve to say the sex wasn't that good in the first place. The good thing is, it's not too late to redeem yourself. You already called on God once to strike down your lies, and It looks like you are getting what you asked for. You brought Him into this, and he is the only one that can get you out of this. What will you do to bring honor to his name?
2. Address the things that look shady AF. Those text messages and videos say a lot, and there really is no way you can spin it. All you can do at this point is admit to being deceitful in an effort to get what you wanted and needed. You aren't the first person who ever used somebody and you won't be the last. All anybody wants right now is accountability and honesty. So, boss up! Learn your lesson, take the L, and move forward. You will get back on top eventually... Trust!
3. Call Blove and speak your peace. As uncomfortable as it may be, it's time for you to put your big girl panties on. There is no way you can come for somebodies livelihood and think you can get away with sweeping it under the rug.
4. TAKE THE EXPOSING VIDEOS DOWN! Nuff Said...
5. Apologize to Blove, Darius, and her Husband publicly. You dragged them through the mud publicly, and it is your job to dust them off.
7. Stop asking people to move on. We will move on from you before we move on from this, and I think your declining numbers are proving just that. What you don't realize is, there can be a silver lining to this shit storm you have created. As a content provider, I know you are aware of the controversy between YouTubers and nobody understanding the essence of a sincere apology. Well... Batter Up! It's your turn Biss! You have the opportunity to raise the bar. Are you going to step up to the plate and hit a home run? I guess only time will tell.
Furthermore, Blove needs to strengthen her discernment and read the energy. Even Lucifer was a fallen Angel. So, he knows the Word of God inside and out, which he will cleverly use to gain your trust, then trick you out before you even know it. For this reason, it is imperative to stay grounded, question everything, and read the energy.
Lastly, when you are blessed with such greatness, the worse possible thing you can ever do is get comfortable. I strongly believe everybody is given a platform to benefit the growth of the collective. If you are given a voice that resonates with the people it is your duty to continue to ask yourself, "What can I do to help people be the best version of themselves so they can pay it forward?" I feel, in this regard, Blove has stalled. Also, in my humble opinion, as a viewer, my heart became less connected the more I began feeling like it's business as usual. She did the unimaginable and outstretched her hand to many underdogs and lotus flowers on YouTube. She took strides to demolish this crab in a barrel mentality, and that is admirable and undeniable. However, I know her Angels are going to lift her up much higher than she currently is. In order to reach this higher elevation, she needed to take a moment to re-calibrate the rhythm of her heart to match the beat of the drum of the people. We all are on this ride with her, so it is dire that we continue to resonate with her every step of the way. This speed bump has interrupted the energy of monotony, which effortlessly brought her, and everybody else, back to love. Now we are all vibrating on one accord. One heart, one beat, one drum. It's all love. Mrs. Bethany Gaskin handled this situation like the Queen she is, and I am very proud of her! This is your winning season, so keep rising Queen! We are here for it, and we love you! Check out Mrs. Bethany Gaskin's "BlovesLife" cameo in The New York Times.
In closing, I want to remind everybody that we are all individuals who have signed up for our own experience on this Earth. My looking glass will look nothing like yours because I had my own set of situations that have shaped my viewpoint on life. No matter what our perspectives are, it is important to step back, strip away the emotions, then question, "Was this done in love?" "Was this said in love?" If the answer is no, then you know the Devil has his claws in the mix.
Always follow the light!
-YUME
Support the Movement:
Paypal: https://www.paypal.me/rainbowhealers
CashApp: $MyRainbowHealers
Business Email: MyRainbowHealers@gmail.com
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